Daily Mail told the horrific story of a family whose
children were confiscated by social services because their loving parents were
"too slow". The outcry it sparked has been astonishing - and reveals
the true scale of this scandal....
They are a hidden population, 250,000 strong but without a
proper voice or control over their futures.
Shockingly, they are 50 times more likely than their
neighbours to have their children taken into care and run a
"significantly" higher risk of losing those children permanently.
Their crime is to be "slow" intellectually, to
have a low IQ or to be labelled as having a learning disability.
Last Saturday, the Daily Mail revealed the scandalous case
of a young couple whose family has been destroyed because their IQ's did not
satisfy Essex County Council.
Their two children, a girl of four and a one-year old boy
were taken into care after social workers judged that the mother did not have
regular routines for her son and daughter, and that she left the girl to play
alone, could not cook simple meals and took too long brushing her teeth. The
father was bizarrely, said to have too many routines.
The parents had not hurt their children or let them go
hungry. There was no sign of abuse or cruelty and, sitting in secret, a family
court judge told the couple they had done nothing wrong, but still ordered that
the children be put up for adoption to give them "a better life".
The view of the social services and the court was that the
couple could not meet their children's basic needs. The father said "They
said our little girl wouldn't reach her full potential if she stayed with
us".
The mother, who has an IQ of 60 but can read and write,
added: "The social workers think I am stupid- but I am not. They have told
us that the children are having a new forever mum and dad and that our little
girl doesn't like us any more. It really upsets me".
The outcry following this story has been astonishing.
Experts, politicians, campaigners and parents have written, telephoned and
e-mailed to express their outrage at what some believe is a sinister experiment
in "social engineering".
And I have discovered the distressing fact that this is not
an isolated case. This couple are by no means alone.
In fact, according to new research by an eminent expert, and
astonishing 20 per cent of all local authority care proceedings in this country
involve parents with learning disabilities.
They are, according to Professor Tim Booth, a
"disproportionate number" who are likely to have their competence as
parents judged against stricter criteria or harsher standards than other
parents' and are disadvantaged in the child protection and court process by
rules of evidence and procedure, their own limitations and inadequacies in
services".
He is writing about people like the original couple, who are
desperately exploring every legal avenue to challenge the court order that put
their son and daughter up for adoption. The father says: "We have got our
MP involved...it is so hard for the children's mother to believe that she won't
ever see them again. This cannot be right".
And people like another Essex couple who have lost one of
their three children to social services. The father has a full time,
responsible job. The mother has a mild learning disability and cannot read and
write but is devoted to her three sons, aged ten, four and two.
Their first child has a problem with controlling his bowels
and at the age of eight, despite being diagnosed by a specialist in London as
having a medical condition. Essex Social Services called in a psychologist and
started legal proceedings to have him taken away from his parents.
The father, who to protect his son cannot be named says:
"We were blamed for a medical condition. A consultant in London said it
was a condition our son would grow out of , but social services said it was us.
They said we were bad parents because we gave in to the children and don't keep
boundaries.
"They blamed my wife's learning disability for her not
having routines. But we are not bad parents. My wife can't read or write, but
she is a lovely mother. You should see her with our boys. This is a happy home
and we will do everything we can to get back our oldest son.
"We have been told he must remain in foster care until
he is 18 and we can only see him once a fortnight for four hours".
Astonishingly, despite taking the first child away, Essex
Social Services have neither removed the two younger boys nor put them on an
at-risk register.
"Social services have been involved throughout my
wife's life because of her learning disability", the father says, pacing
up and down his small living room. "And when she had our first child, she
had postnatal depression and they always seemed to be here, picking holes in what
we were doing.
"Our boy was a little bit behind at school and the
psychologist's report said he would do better if he was taken away from the
home environment. The solicitor told us we should co-operate with the social
services and they would ease our son back into our home. But we have found out
they have no such plans. Poor chap, he wants to be home with his mum and
dad".
The couple, who live in a council house filled with toys and
baby equipment, went with their son when he was taken to his new home with
foster parents. The father recalls: "We had to leave him there. He was
only eight and was crying for his mum,, holding onto her leg. Social services
don't know the damage they are doing ripping kids away from their parents.
"The reason given for taking him away was unintentional
neglect. They are blaming my wife's learning disability for hindering our son's
development. They said he was too dependent on his mum, too clinging.
"What we do not understand is that we are the same
parents for the other two boys and they are not being taken away. It doesn't
make sense.
But there is a pattern to these cases. In both, the mothers
have learning disabilities and social workers concentrated their criticism on
their "lack of routines". The first mother claims she was "set
up to fail" by ten professionals involved in her assessment.
The second mother says: "They kept watching and picking
little holes in what I did. I still give my littlest one a bottle sometimes and
they say he is too old and must drink out of a cup. My friends don't have
someone telling them how to do everything and when to do it. I love my children
and I take care
of them".
And in both cases, the fathers were accused of being
aggressive and told to go on an anger management course. The first father was
then told by his course tutor when he arrived that he didn't have a problem.
The second father has not yet got a date for his course and
rolls his eyes at the thought: "Of course I am angry. They are taking my
child away and destroying my family. I don't need to classes. I need my son
back".
The second couple are starting a legal battle to discharge
the care order and get their son home but, according to Professor Tim Booth,
the odds are stacked against them.
The recently retired academic, who held the chair in
Sociological Studies at Sheffield University has just completed a two-year
investigation into the treatment of parents with learning disabilities when
they become embroiled in care proceedings. His findings are a damning
indictment of the system.
In his report, Professor Booth raises the spectre of
widespread discrimination against parents with learning disabilities by social
services and the family court system. He and his co-author, Wendy Booth looked
at a total of 437 care proceedings in Sheffield and Leeds and the figures tell
their own story:
Fifteen per cent of all local authority care applications
involve a parent with learning difficulties.
Another five percent of applications involve a parent with
with borderline learning difficulties.
Parents with learning difficulties and their children
feature in care applications up to 50 times more
often than would be expected from their numbers in the
population.
75 per cent of children with parents with learning
difficulties were taken away from the family.
Two in every five of those children were put up for
adoption.
The children of parents with learning difficulties were
significantly more likely to be the subjects of such adoption orders than
children of other parents.
But, of course, the human cost behind these statistics is
vast. Professor Booth says "A whirlpool of distress lies hidden in these
figures.
The reality beneath is of mothers, especially, battling
against the odds to create a family home, with little but their own
impoverished childhood to fall back on by way of example, eventually coming
under the surveillance of social workers who are more concerned with policing
than supporting their parenting.
"The families end up ensnared in an inquiry, operated
by rules and standards beyond their understanding, which finally leads to legal
proceedings and the loss of a cherished child. Then, they may have another
baby, to establish the ordinary family life they crave and hoping to shut the
door on the professionals they no longer trust". But then the interference
starts again.
And he gives a powerful insight into the long-term effects
of enforced adoption from interviews with affected parents. "For these
parents the hurt has not eased nor will their grief abate. However long ago it
was since their case was heard, the impact of the proceedings continued to
ripple through their lives.
"A quarter of the parents we talked to voluntary
mentioned that they had been, or were going to be, sterilised as a result of
having been through care proceedings. There may have been others. It is not
possible to tell how far these decisions were taken on health grounds, under
the pressure of professional "advice" or from a consuming desire to
avoid having to face the same trauma of loss with yet another child.
He is scathing about the lack of expertise among social
workers, who make such fundamental judgements. "The possibility cannot
easily be dismissed that some social workers bring their attitudes to the job:
that the "professional knows best", culture....is itself a product of
the kind of people attracted into child protection work" - and about
government policy which insists the number of adoptions should be increased and
the process speeded up.
Arrangements for quicker adoption were introduced in the
Adoption and Children Act 2002 in order to get more children out of council
care and into families.
However, according to members of the legal professional who
were interviewed anonymously for the report, the policy may be encouraging some
local authorities to put children up for adoption rather than spend money on
supporting parents with learning disabilities.
One solicitor says "Removing the child from the parent
and placing them with someone who they can just leave them to get on with
rather than offering that support is the easier option - so it is
discriminatory in a sense".
Ominously. a judge admitted: "You know it's terribly
easy to go along with the local authority I mean, it's the easiest way through
to go for adoption. It feels safe". Another judge said simply: "It
depend show people look at someone with learning difficulties: it's something
from which you don't recover".
All of which makes alarming reading for parents caught in
the care process and the campaigners who are fighting for their rights.
David Congdon, Men cap's Director of External Relations
said: "This is most disconcerting. Cases like this show what a difficult
situation parents with learning difficulties are placed in. Forty to sixty per
cent of parents with a learning disability get their children taken away while
the evidence is that with a little bit of support, many are quite capable of
looking after their children.
"It is hard to believe that all of these parents were
not able to bring up their children. Taking children away should be the
exception - not the norm. The assumption appears to be that these people can't
be parents, which is wrong".
It is a view echoed by the Commissioner for Disability
Rights, Phillippa Russell, who urges local authorities to put more support
systems in place. She says; "This is a very complicated area, but there
are far more people with learning disabilities living in the community now,
having ordinary relationships and having children.
"We don't want a situation where people with learning
disabilities are assumed not to be able to be parents. That would be social
engineering gone mad. These people need non-intrusive, appropriate support.
Meanwhile, the Government is being urged to to end the
secrecy of family courts which sit without a jury or public scrutiny in order
to protect the confidentiality of the children. Anyone who tries to raise
issues in the public interest risks an injunction and imprisonment. The result
is that miscarriages of justice go unnoticed and unchallenged. The
Constitutional Affairs select committee recommended earlier this year that
courts should be more open and publicly accountable, but the Government has yet
to act.
Sarah Harman, a leading children's rights solicitor and
sister of Harriet Harman, the newly appointed Minister of State in the
Department of Constitutional Affairs, has written to Beverley Hughes, the new
Children's Minister, demanding more transparency in care proceedings.
She says: "I am currently involved in a case where
parents have children living at home and another child placed in care. The
bread winner parent has suffered serious depression and anxiety as a result of
one of his children being placed away from home and has been less and less able
to do his job".
As a result, his employers are taking disciplinary
proceedings against him, yet he is forbidden by the secret court from
discussing the reason for his troubles. Yet again, the system seems to be
riding roughshod over some of the most vulnerable in society.
As Professor Booth sums it up: "The parents stories
have a kind of inevitable momentum about them, driven less by what was
happening in their lives than by the dynamics of the process in which they had
become entrapped. It is this that accounts for the apparent gulf between the
general ordinariness of the family's troubles and the pathos of the final
outcome".
Meanwhile a spokesperson for Essex Social Services said:
"We are aware of no occasion where a court in Essex has ever placed a
child in the care of the County Council simply because one or both parents have
learning difficulties.
"Ninety-nine per cent of children and young people
referred to Essex County Council's Children's Service remain with their
families and we assess the needs of each and every child on the at-risk
register before deciding the best possible support for that child".
daily mail comment:
It is a world of terrifying shadows, which thank God most of
us will never know: a world of all-powerful officials, secret courts, stolen
children and ruined lives: a world where love has no place and the vulnerable
have no voice.
Today on page 22 [SATURDAY, 14TH MAY 2005] we reveal the
profoundly disturbing details of how decent people can be caught up in a
nightmare they don't understand, how happy, cared for children can be torn from
their mothers and given to strangers and how a remorseless administrative
machine insists it's all for the best.
No, this isn't a story from the dark days of Soviet
dictatorship. This is happening in civilised liberal Britain, where parents
have no rights at all if they don't measure up to the standards of intelligence
deemed appropriate by social workers.
And it doesn't matter if your children are loved,
well-nourished and properly clothed. It doesn't matter if they are content and
cared for in a stable, hard working environment.
They are still liable to be snatched from you and put into
the cold "care" of the local council if you happen to have learning
difficulties or a lower IQ, whatever your other qualities.
Somehow, without any publicity or popular consent, the
social work establishment has set itself up as the supreme arbiter of good
parenthood. And the consequences are devastating.
Take the positively Kafkaesque case we reported last
Saturday involving a couple who are utterly distraught at the way their very
young daughter and her baby brother were confiscated and sent for adoption. The
reason? Social workers in Essex claim the couple are "too slow" to be
parents.
But this was a happy, secure family. The children were loved
and kept clean, well dressed and well-fed. Moreover, their father has held down
a job in the same company for 22 years.
None of that seemed to matter to the thought police of
Essex. They were worried that the mother had a low IQ. And having sent an army
of social workers into the family home, they solemnly concluded that she took
too long to brush her teeth and had difficulty in preparing meals (though the
children's father did much of the cooking). To cap it all, this outrage was
originally shrouded in shameful secrecy.
The Family Court, which heard the case. doesn't sit in
public. And a bullying Essex County Council threatened an injunction against a
brave local councillor who dared to raise questions.
Fortunately, Barry Aspinell refused to be cowed into
silence, which is why this appalling case is now in the public domain. But as
our report today reveals, the scandal isn't confined to Essex.
All over the country, families are being cruelly torn apart
not for the welfare of children, but because social workers are following a
politically correct, bureaucratically convenient agenda.
After all, isn't it cheaper and simpler to put children up
for adoption than to spend money supporting parents with learning difficulties?
And anyway, doesn't the social work establishment tend to think the state
always knows best?
The aching sadness in all this is that while loving families
are being crushed, cases of genuine child abuse too often go unnoticed or
ignored until it is too late. Can anyone forget the deaths of Maria Colwell,
Jasmine Beckford, little Victoria Climbie and so many others betrayed by social
workers?
The best way to protect children is through the love and
security of two parents and a stable home.
And that doesn't take brains. It takes care and commitment
and responsibility. That is the lesson of human experience.
How tragic that officialdom seems incapable of grasping it.
The Editor of the Daily Mail makes a judgement on future
articles by the public perception/response of/to such articles. The feedback is
one indication. E-mail Fiona Barton fiona.barton@dailymail.co.uk or telephone
Fiona on her direct line: 0207 9386275 NOW!
We must stop this dreadful systematic abuse causing so much
pain to families and children by opening up these secret cruel courts. L.Bevan
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